Rebounding In Style: Six Tips For Getting Back Into The Dating Game

Rebounding In Style: Six Tips For Getting Back Into The Dating Game

Getting back in the dating game after a long sojourn can be quite intimidating. You know you need to get out there sooner or later, and whether or not it was you who made the choice, you’re probably dealing with a lot of emotions. Sitting in your home all alone is unhealthy — you need to get out into the world and start meeting new people. But it’s a complex situation. So here’s five tips for moving on and rebounding in style.

1. Make Sure You’re Ready
First off, make sure that you’re even ready for dating again. Sure, getting attention from the opposite sex is definitely going to get your mind off your heartbreak or what you’ve lost and will even make you feel good about yourself. But if you’re not ready, it can even be a dangerous thing. Because ending a long relationship is a volatile time in your life, and you need to be sure that you’ve taken the time to heal before you work on moving on.
2. Don’t Make Women Just Another Addiction
One of the dangers that you face is making women a way to hide from the pain and loss. Not only is it unfair to them, but it can lead to you making bad decisions. One of those bad decisions I see a lot is the rebound relationship — when a man or woman jumps directly back into another relationship before they even have time to figure out what’s going on.

Then later, they wonder why it is that they drug all the same problems from the last relationship into the new. Don’t make women an addiction, whether that be a sexual addiction or an addiction to relationships. A woman’s bed should be enjoyable, not a place to hide.

3. Speaking Of Addictions…
Speaking of addictions, being newly single is also a time when you face more of a risk of falling into alcoholism or drug addiction. Newfound freedom. You’re going through a lot of pain. All your friends, many of whom never left the party scene all those years you were dating, are trying to help you get away from it all by going to the nearest bar or party.

Realize your vulnerability, and don’t make the party your life just because you’re trying to hide from what’s going on in your life. Spend some time doing constructive things and meeting women in constructive places as well.

4. Be Upfront About Your Situation
Whether you are divorced with children or had your heart crushed and broken from your teenage crush, don’t hide the failed relationship from women that you meet. Chances are they’re going to find out about it sooner or later, and if they find out you were hiding something from them, it’s just to make you look worse and make them assume the worst.

Failed or not, the relationship might even make you more appealing to women. It shows that you’re not entirely afraid of commitment and that other women felt you that you were safe enough, and desirable enough, to be with.

5. Focus On Yourself First
Make sure to use this time to focus on yourself as well. Being single again is a blast. There are opportunities all over the place! But it is also a time to grow as a human being, and as mentioned before, this time for growth can present dangers if ignored.

So think about what you want with your life before you get yourself into another dating situation. And even if you start dating right off the bat, take your time alone to focus on your own interests, improving yourself, and re-evaluating life’s possibilities.

6. Be Ready For A Whole New Dating Paradigm
If you’ve been in a relationship, or married, for quite some time, you’re going to find that the dating world has taken on a whole new look. Everybody is connected to social media and wired into cell phones now, and the new dating world is full of distractions, opportunities, and trivial relationships.

It’s going to present a lot of interesting temptations and possibilities, but it canalso be overwhelming. Don’t feel like you need to do everything the way everyone else is doing it. A lot of people reject social media and networking, choosing to live a more simple life.

As always, make your own decisions and make your own world. Getting back into the dating scene can be tough, especially if you have been out of it for a long time, but by remembering the tips above and easing yourself back into it at your pace, it can be a fun game to start playing again.

And if there is a friend you’ve had your eye on for a while but aren’t sure how to go about it, be sure to check out the video I posted on Breaking Out of the Friend Zone. Click the link below.

Good luck,

AFC Adam

One Response to “Rebounding In Style: Six Tips For Getting Back Into The Dating Game”

  1. Will says:


    This is my personal affirmation list. It’s mostly to help me be successful with women but also has a lot to do with having self-esteem, confidence and a healthy psychological state of being. Feel free to use it and share it with others. It took me a long time to build this list and I have found it extremely helpful.


    Beliefs of Naturals – My Reality

    Read 3 times before bed and in the morning(do it for a for month)
    Record in the second person. Play recording on a loop continuously at a low volume(whisper).
    Play recording during the day and at night while sleeping.

    1. Being with me is the best possible choice for any woman.

    2. Women love men and especially love me.

    3. I love life!

    4. I am God. I am Perfect. This is my universe!

    5. I am fearless, courageous and bold!!!

    6. I read incredibly fast!

    7. Women love sex and want sex from me.

    8. My intelligence, creativity and potential is infinite!

    9. Women love to be hit on even if they pretend otherwise.

    10. I am completely focused, organised and use my time with the utmost efficiency.

    11. Women are nurtures and pleaser’s who want to nurture and please me.

    12. I am a self-assured, confident, sexual and dominant male.

    13. Everyday in every way I am better and better!!!

    14. I have complete control over my life, mind and psychological state of being.

    15. I am the greatest genius this world has ever seen.

    16. I heal instantly!

    17. I am successful, confident and achieve my goals. I exude confidence, sex, power and self-esteem.

    18. I can be, do and have anything I want to in this world, my possibilities are endless!!!

    19. I love myself! I am complete, fulfilled and completely happy!!!

    20. I am growing more beautiful and luminous day by day.

    21. People love me! I make friends easily.

    23. I read and meditate every day. I access all the knowledge in the universe.

    25. I am completely irresistible to women!

    26. Regardless of how she is reacting to me she is getting aroused.

    27. I see the underlying truth in all things.

    28. I am an adventurer! I travel the world!

    29. Regardless of how she is reacting to me I am the prize she is trying to win over!

    30. I am a multi-millionaire and master seducer!

    31. I love what I do and am richly rewarded, creatively and financially.

    32. I have a perfect photographic memory! I recall everything easily.

    33. Since she wants to sleep with me, the power is in my court to decide whether she lives up to my standards and expectations. I get to decide if we get to sleep together.

    34. I create my own reality!

    35. Today I love my body fully, deeply and joyfully.

    37. Today I open my mind to the endless opportunities surrounding me.

    38. Prosperity surrounds me, prosperity fills me, prosperity flows to me and through me.

    39. I have sex with super hot, confident, loving, caring and intelligent women with genius IQ’s all the time!

    40. I think positively every day, all the time.

    41. I attract amazing people.

    42. My imagination and power affirmations are now creating the reality I desire.

    43. My body is now trained to burn fat and build muscle day by day.

    44. I have a six pack of abdominal muscles.

    45. Let these commands be fulfilled!!!

    46. I am filled with the light of love, peace, happiness, power, success and joy every day, all the time.

    47. I am aggressive, direct and powerful with the women I desire. I radiate a confidence, self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive.

    48. My mind is focused on what I desire and I go for it congruently and powerfully.

    49. I take immediate advantage of my opportunities with women. I swiftly establish incredible rapport, gather the information I need, then close with aggression, power and finesse.

    50. I radiate a natural, easy self-acceptance that women find irresistibly attractive.

    51. I am mastering the responses, attitudes, behaviours, insights and timing that bring me irresistible power with the women I desire.

    52. I am now approaching women that I am attracted to.

    53. I am able to pick up and attract any women I desire.

    54. I am a strong, powerful, aggressive, dominant, alpha male, leader and conqueror!!!

    55. I am charming, interesting and fascinating!!!

    56. I have a perfectly sculptured muscle ripped body.

    57. I am super hot and sexy, all women want me!

    58. Abundance is my natural state of being!

    59. Money comes to me easily and continuously from multiple sources!

    61. My IQ and intelligence increases daily rapidly!!!

    62. I have clear beautiful skin!

    63. I have lucid dreams and recall all my dreams with complete clarity!

    65. All things are now working together for good in my life.

    66. I am now attuned to my higher purpose in life.

    67. I rule the world! I am brilliant and perfect in every possible way!

    68. I succeed in everything I do!

    69. I have sex with one thousand super hot women!

    70. I am now enjoying everything I do and feel happy just being alive.

    71. Sex with super hot women comes to me easily and effortlessly.

    72. The light within me creates miracles in my life here and now.

    73. All things are now working together for good in my life.

    74. I am now attuned to my higher purpose in life.

    75. I have the infinite creative power of God within me.

    76. My higher self is guiding me in everything that I do.

    77. God lives within me and manifests in the world through me.

    78. The light of God surrounds me, the love of God enfolds me, the power of God flows through me. Wherever I am, God is, and all is well!

    79. I ascend spiritually rapidly everyday all the time!

    80. I am a Natural, Ladies Man and Player!

    81. Everywhere I go women want to fuck me!

    82. I have sex with supermodels daily.

    83. Supermodels have an incredible desire to fuck me wherever I go!

    84. I attract whatever I desire.

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